According to one of my favorite Swedish tabloids, Aftonbladet, below are TEN clear signs of unfaithfulness:

1. You partner draws away and sends text messages, without being able to tell you who’s getting them all.
2. Your partner is happy but seems to have their thoughts else where.
3. He/she has all of the sudden an increased mobile phone bill, even though nothing specific has happened at work/in the family.
4. You often realise that your partner is lying about where he/she has been.
5. You partner switches between moving away and being overly present and cuddly.

1. He/she sits up and email until late at night to an unknown receiver.
2. He/she has suddenly become more keen on their outer appearance.
3. Your partner works overtime more than usual.
4. You receive time and again telephone calls that break when you answer.
5. Your partner has started a new hobby that takes up all their leisure time, but you can’t join in.

Oh, and there is an NB! (Obs!) at the end: “One occasional sign does not necessarily mean infidelity. However, the more signs you recognize, the greater the risk…

P.S.The lover is often a friend, neighbour or colleague and some people use infidelity as a springboard.

I am springboarding everywhere at this point in my life together with my friends, neighbours, colleagues, people I meet on the bus and tram, in the taxi… I don’t know how I would have survived otherwise. Does that make me unfaithful? Is that so wrong?

It’s all about asking the right questions and not being scared to do so (or hear/feel the answer I suppose).

You know what? I have HAPPY FEET and here’s the guy…